We do things in order to get pleasure and/or avoid pain.  It’s that simple.  So, when you are thinking about making a change, get really clear about the payoffs and costs.  What is in it for you to make the change?  What pain are you in now that you would like to alleviate?  What is the cost to you down the road if you do not make the change?

Changing careers is a great example.  Career change is hard.  Our identity, our network, our social structure is based in what we do.  So, considering a career change can be pretty daunting.  But, what is in it for you to change careers?  Maybe you could make more money.  Maybe you’d have more balance in your life.  Maybe you’d be doing work that you love or contributing to a cause that is important to you.  And, what’s the pain you are in now?  Are you bored?  Burnt out?  Disinterested or disillusioned?  Is it a dead end?   And, if you don’t make a change, what is the cost?  If you are working all the time, might you lose you family?  Jeopardize your health?  Be angry and depressed? 

No matter what change you are contemplating, there are payoffs and prices that must be considered.   When you see that the price of not changing is greater than the risk, or that the payoff is worth the price, you’ll be ready to move forward.